Sexual Mastery Program (for men)
Imagine having a deep connection and trust in your own body in any sexual situation and experiencing a deep intimate connection, fun, excitement, exploration, joy and pleasure with a partner.
You can enjoy the sexual dance as long as you want, not having to worry about having an erection or not or premature ejaculation. You have a great capacity to experience pleasure in many different ways, including different orgasms and orgasmic states. You have a healthy integrated relationship to sex, enjoy a strong sexual vitality, and feel more confident and empowered inside the bedroom and in other areas of your life.
This programme is a practical journey that will guide you to experience all of this, ultimately BEING a better lover, of (wo)men and of life. We will guide you to step out of the box, and shift everything you have ever learned, been taught or heard about sex and intimacy.
Through group discussion, presentations, demonstrations, and coaching tools we will lead you through this transformational journey. You will see your sexual experience and history of sex from different perspectives that help you grow out of any patterned behaviours that no longer serve you, as we guide you to a new expanded level of sexual experience, skill, wisdom and confidence to help you enjoy the best sex of your life.
Hearing directly from and interacting online with women we bring to present during the programme – you will learn what really turns women on and what they seek from a male lover as you embark on your own journey into your own sexuality and discover the keys to unlock your sexual potency and enjoy the best sex of your life. And Yves will also demonstrate live to you during one of the sessions how a deeply intimate and sexual interaction with a woman may look like (no explicit nudity involved nor necessary).
This programme is not about offering simple tips, tricks or techniques. The internet is full of them! Some may actually help men DO better in the bedroom.
What if what you are doing is based on the wrong assumptions, beliefs, outlook and ideas?
This is almost always the case as society, our parents, families, friends and peers have conditioned us with erroneous cultural, medical and religious messages around sex and what it is supposed to be.
On this programme, you will learn…
- How to unlock your full sexual potential and power
- What great sex looks like and how to create it
- All you need to know about female sexuality, the science of desire and what women really want from us in the bedroom
- Getting very clear on what you really want – your desires and goals – and understanding what’s holding you and your partner back from having more frequent and better sex
- How to lead a woman (or man) through a sexual experience that is fulfilling and satisfying for both of you
- New ways of having sex that deepen pleasure, connection and intimacy
- Basic elements of tantric sex practices
- How to move sexual energy around the body to prolong love-making
- The importance of presence and holding space for your partner
- What polarity is and how to create it to ignite the sexual spark
- All about the genitals – where the hot buttons are and how to play with them to create great sexual experiences for you and your partner
- How to read the bodily signs of your lover/s
- All about orgasms and how to experience greater pleasure and different, more fulfilling orgasmic states
- To serve your partner’s sexual desires as well as receive sexual pleasure without sex declining into a boring transactional process
- How to work with shame to explore deeper aspects of our sexuality to unlock greater pleasure and intimacy with your lover/s
- How to communicate all your desires with ease and finesse
- A deep connection and trust in your body and genitals in any sexual situation
- How to delay ejaculation at your will and last as long as you like
- How to change your personal sexual narrative (that you have been conditioned to believe from an early age) and create a healthy, integrated relationship to sex
- How to bring your sexual mastery and sense of confidence and aliveness outside of the bedroom to support you in thriving in all aspects of your life.
If you have little experience sexually or you have a wealth of sexual experience:
Either way you will gain new insights to sex, discover what you really want and what’s holding you back, and how you can liberate your sexual experiences.
“I took the 2021 Sexual Mastery Course and at first was very apprehensive as to whether I could get any value from it.
At the age of 52 I was slightly stuck in my ways around sex after all many women tell me how good I am in bed so what could they teach me.
I couldn’t be more wrong I learnt how to actually be more in touch with what I was feeling and then in turn please and be pleased by a woman from that more connected stand point.
One of my goals was not to keep ejaculating and before the course ended, I got to that place which I was so happy with and even though I know it is going to be a journey to get to a place where I feel I have full control over my ejaculation this was an awesome place to start.
For me this course was worth every penny and it taught me so much about sex and how we view sex from a closed place and miss out on the immense beauty and connection that we can achieve with sex.
If your considering doing this course and are on the fence I would say definitely do it, as it will open new doors to where your sex life could go
Thanks again Rowan and Yves for putting this together and thanks to all the guys on the group that were just so welcoming and non-judgemental about anything that came up.
— EW, UK
“I took part in Rowan and Yves’s Sexual Mastery Course because I wanted to be a better sexual partner to a woman who is more sexually experienced than me.
As a committed lover, I wanted to deal with different issues that had plagued me from childhood and also wanted support in pursuing new things as well. In fact, I was already looking for resources to help me, but I brought my search to an end when I discovered the course, even though I had to overcome the initial feeling of awkwardness being part of an actual group.
The biggest benefit I got from the course was the realisation that I was not alone with my different issues. Whether it related to performance, delaying ejaculation, dominance or fulfilling deep desires, I found everyone else was in the same boat.
Normalising my own issues was the first step to developing them and that was an amazing breakthrough.
I know it might sound weird taking a course in sexual mastery. But for people who are always trying to improve themselves in every aspect of their lives, you can either spend your time scouring the web, reading articles etc and do everything in a silo… OR… you can just take the course.
My advice? Take the course!”
— FB, UAE
About Your Presenters
This programme draws on the presenters’ own experience of this journey over many years.
Sex Educator, Men’s/Couples Coach, Former professional Bodyworker and Tantric gigolo
Yves Bonroy is a sex educator and coach having originally trained in law. Ten years ago he quit his job as a lawyer, and became a student of different tantra schools in both Europe and Asia studying these ancient wisdoms of sexuality combined with spirituality. He also trained as a coach in Psychosexual Somatics Therapy, a body-oriented therapy combining neuroscience, trauma therapy, attachment theory, psychotherapy, energy psychology and bodywork disciplines.
Since quitting his legal career he has been a professional tantric bodyworker and tantric gigolo and worked with hundreds of couples helping them to connect more intimately, to restore passion, pleasure and polarity in their sex lives and become better lovers.
Nowadays, Yves is both a couples and a men’s coach. Working with men from all walks of life, he teaches them to harness their sexual energy as a powerful means for inner growth and personal transformation. Throughout the year, Yves runs different live and online couples and men workshops and programmes.
With over 10 years and more than 10,000 hours of learning and practice in sexual mastery and coaching, Yves now helps men and women transform their lives by helping them gain confidence, freedom and joy in the bedroom.
“All through my teenage years and much of my twenties I experienced a mixture of confusion, performance anxiety and frustration when having sex. It seemed impossible to figure out what women actually wanted in the bedroom, and what my role should be.”
“I had this deep and unexplainable urge to merge with the woman, to dissolve into each other so completely that there would be nothing left of me or her. To become one with two bodies. Yet I had no idea how to achieve that.”
“Back then, I didn’t know that this was even possible and that one day I would be able to experience this consistently with any woman.”
I searched everywhere for answers. Watching porn, surfing the internet for tips and tricks and asking for advice from my male friends. All the advice I found fell short of the answers I was looking for. Then I discovered Tantra and everything changed.
I got to see just how much of my self worth was hung up on my bed partners’ assessment and approval of my sexual performance. This revelation very quickly changed my sexual landscape beyond recognition. I found out that sex could be infinitely more fulfilling than mere penetration and an orgasm that lasted a few seconds.
That’s when I quit my lawyer job and dedicated myself to studying the art of real sex and intimacy. I worked relentlessly to overcome all the obstacles that were holding me back. I also let go of deeply ingrained false beliefs about sex and sexuality, and replaced them with healthy and empowering ones.
During that period of training and professional practice as a bodyworker and gigolo, my body got so sensitive that I was able to use it as an antenna to feel a woman’s body as if it was my own.
Founder of No More Mr. Nice Guy® UK and the Breaking Free Bootcamp™, Workshop facilitator, Men’s coach & Couples relationship coach
Rowan is the founder of the No More Mr. Nice Guy® Men’s Group, one of the largest and most active men’s groups in the UK. He is an accredited No More Mr. Nice Guy coach, a workshop facilitator, men’s coach and couples relationship coach.
For more than 12 years Rowan has been helping private individuals, couples and groups, as well as businesses and organisations, to embrace the change necessary to elicit growth – personal, sexual, financial/economic and spiritual growth.
After being confronted with the limits his own Nice Guy tendencies were putting on his life, he began an intensive programme of recovery to break free and live a life of his own making.
His exploration of the Nice Guy Syndrome led him to the USA to work with Dr Robert Glover, author of the book No More Mr. Nice Guy – A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want in Love, Sex and Life.
Returning home, Rowan saw the scale of the problem of the Nice Guy Syndrome in the UK and launched the No More Mr. Nice Guy® UK Men’s Group in 2017.
Since then he has had a particular focus on helping men who identify as ‘Nice Guy’s’, and supporting them in their recovery from the Nice Guy Syndrome through one to one coaching, Men’s Groups, seminars and workshops. He is also a couples relationship coach, helping partners enjoy better sex and a greater depth of intimacy and connection.
Part of Rowan’s Nice Guy recovery journey included a deep exploration into his own sexuality, a journey prompted by the ending of a long term relationship.
During that journey he studied and practised a variety of ancient and contemporary sexual and spiritual practices and explored open and polyamorous relationship structures. Having had dozens and dozens of sexual experiences in that time, with women and men, become a BDSM ‘Master’, and facilitated workshops on sexuality and relationships, he has been bringing what he learned on his journey to his clients ever since.